29 Aug 2022 358 0  

Could loneliness be a key to a happy life?

Imagine that you woke up late, you didn’t hear your mobile ring, you didn’t get any messages. Then time passed and everything stayed the same. Your days became similar, you still wake up late, still waiting for a call, still waiting for a message, until you find that you shouldn’t wait anymore, and this will be your new routine for a while.

 

Loneliness is one of the saddest feelings ever, especially when we don’t choose it, because it’s against our human nature since we love to communicate, love to share our day, our happiest moments, our sadness, and literally share everything!

Some people are happy with their loneliness and some people aren’t. Despite how good or successful they are, they usually have an inner feeling that they aren’t really happy. There is no clearer example than the celebrities who seem to be always happy and have everything but in reality they aren’t.

 

*Loneliness is a temporary period*

Recently, I see that loneliness is just a temporary period, and it comes & disappears according to our circles & people around us, as what we feel now is different from what we felt in the past. From my point of view, I see that if we ever felt lonely & there’s no one to share our day with, it’s a great chance to know ourselves better. Discovering our characters will let us know how to deal with bad times, if you didn’t risk alone you’ll be at a real risk cause you didn’t know how to deal with it.

 

*Trying will always help us*

When I felt lonely for a long time, I put myself into a closed circle & I didn’t try to meet new people, maybe it was a fear of getting hurt, or I no longer believe that there is good people in this life, or maybe because I became shy. So I canceled meetings, didn’t respond to those who were trying to know me, and didn’t hang out with my friends. Then communicating with people -in general- became difficult. So I gave them a chance and gave myself a chance. I tried to meet new people, thinking: what am I gonna lose?

*Your choices are important*
You maybe with some people, you hang out, laugh, and spend a good moments, but then you feel that you’re lonely in front of them & you wish you were in somewhere else or you aren’t a part of that group. Just choose people that you can be happy with!

*Try to be happy in all cases*
Whether you chose to be alone or not, or you find yourself with so many people but you’re lonely, whatever the case was, just choose your mental health over anything else, choose people who you can be happy with!