12 Jan 86 0  

A few days ago I saw a screenshot from a Facebook group, a woman asking the members how she can protect her right in an apartment she’s paying for with her husband but it’s the “ Janet Masr”  apartment, it can be for both of them.

The Men’s opinion about her inquiry was so weird! They said that she is a businesswoman, not a wife, and may god protect us from them this kind of woman.

I saw the screenshot with an open mouth, I can’t believe they actually said that or saw that she’s a bad woman just for asking for her right!

And I wondered when the Egyptian men became reliable like that, and how they forgot the difference between sharing and reliability, and I remembered the time when I was young and questioning everything and someone explained to me why “Men are superior to women” or Why they take double the inheritance of w woman and I was believing that since we’re an Islamic country and men are always asking about their rights in the Quraan, they must do their duties too!
But for an unknown reason, a lot of men became dependable and want to be living from their wife’s money, and when it became a NORMAL THING!

So, I started asking the people around me, why a lot of men have become dependable like that.

But I would like to point out that I completely support the concept of sharing between spouses or between a man and a woman in general but I am not with the reliability, and I am not saying that all men are like that because it’s not true, but we’re seeing a massive percentage of them these days.
Let me share with you what they said and let me know your opinion whether you’re agreeing nor not.
 

The strong independence and equality between women and men

 

In the last few years the strong independent woman movement has become bigger, and it made its purpose, it enabled women to feel their place in society and to have important jobs, to feel themselves, become more independent, and to know that their role in life is as important as men.

But it has shifted from this lofty idea that women have been fighting over for years, to a completely different aspect!

Many women have fallen into the trap of independence, saying no, I am better than him, I can do exactly what he does and much better than him, I am the only one who bears my personal responsibility whether for my expenses or anything I need "And I'm not saying that this is a mistake at all, but every extra thing turns against it!”

Men took this concept in another direction, that women must provide everything, and help in every need and everything! They forgot the things that are required of them in the first place, They forgot chivalry, they forgot the duty that religion imposed on them, and they didn't talk about anything other than their rights, and they kept taking the women's rights as well.

 

Culture Cringe

 

We have been hearing about the culture cringe a lot these days in everything we do, and it affected marriage as well, when you talk with any dependable man he tells you that the woman outside work and pays for everything with the man, but the ignore the fifty-fifty part if they get divorced or the rights women have in these countries.

 

Men's preference for their comfort over work

 

In recent times, many men prefer their rest over work, and some of them stopped sharing with their wives, and they put all the load on them!
You can find women working in one job or two and they go home to clean it and make launch to the kids and keep him happy and satisfied, and he doesn’t do anything at all except play on their phone and drink tea, and he’ll see that he’s doing a lot of things but she can’t notice it and many women don’t say anything because they’re afraid of the abuse.

 

These were the reasons I heard when I asked about why men became dependable like that, tell us your opinion and let us know how we can get rid of it.