01 Sep 2022 274 0  

How I knew he’s not the one?

 

Sometimes, we think that we’ve finally found the one! We think about how he would suit us, how he is good, well-educated, and people around us say: any girl would love to have a man like him! Like you need nothing but these qualities to live with him.

 

But every time we get much closer to someone, we know them better, their good qualities, their worst qualities, how they react, what they hide, and more characteristics that can’t be very clear from the first time, so now we are going to talk about when can you feel you didn’t find the one.

- If he takes a step just because he needs to take a step and be in a relationship. If he isn’t interested to know you better and only talks about himself if you can’t be yourself with him, and it’s harmful! Because we need a soulmate to be close to us and listen to us, our experiences, and our past. And this happens in a balanced way between the two parties.

- If he talks too much about his ex & his emotions in his past relationships more than talking about you, your relationship, and your future together. This can be that he isn’t over his past yet, and he is with you just to move on.

- If he doesn’t know your worth. And if he used to talk about your flaws instead of talking about your good qualities. Or if he talks about himself more than talking about you.

- Successful communication is the most important part of any relationship because our journey together isn’t just all about good moments & happiness. Normally we pass through a lot of things, fights, problems, and challenges just to be together. And if we can’t communicate successfully together, so we can’t be together!

 

-The idea of having a life partner is all about being yourself with him, from waking up when you’re not your best. Having a life partner is all about sharing our thoughts, our needs, our mood swings, And if you can’t be yourself with your life partner, so he isn’t your life partner.