19 Sep 2022 255 0  

Is Pain A Part Of Our Life?

The answer is yes, it is. But pain has different forms in our life. The pain of commiting to learn a new hobby is better than the pain of regretting not doing it. The pain of facing someone with the things that hurt you, is better than the pain of not talking at all.

Committing with something is very hard & exhausting, but it makes you feel your worth, it makes you feel that one day, you had a life, and you lived so many things and tried so many things!

The pain of letting people go is so hard too, but it’s better than the pain of being with someone you fear to lose, the fear will drive you until you are left, then you return to a new type of pain, the pain of losing! Let’s agree that both of them are painful, but the pain of letting things go is much better than the pain that comes out of fear!

I watched a scene on a TV series called “The OA” on Netflix. It explained the idea of accepting pain. Briefly, a bully stole a camera from the show’s heroine, and he had a big dog that she feared so much, which made it easy for him to steal the camera. The girl hesitates, then she insists on taking her camera back. Then the dog attacked the girl and bit her hand. The girl finds that there’s no way and no one is coming to save her, she bites the dog until he lets her go, then she hugs him, stands up and takes her camera. And surprisingly, the dog leaves his owner and goes with the girl.

What I want to say is that she accepted the pain of being attacked by the dog, that acted as her fears, rather than feeling weak and letting go of her camera out of fear.

In the end, you will feel pain, but choose the pain that heals you!