15 Aug 2022 358 0  

Every day, we meet different people with different characters, these characters include toxic characters. Many people get shocked to discover that the majority of their relationships were toxic, even though they knew this all along. Then they sink into a deep depression, questioning their character and whether they are awful individuals who shouldn't be loved. But did these people ever consider that they truly find themselves drawn to toxic people and that they want to embark on this adventurous journey?
Unfortunately, even if they are aware that they may be hurt, many people find themselves attracted to toxic characters. Maybe the big reason behind this is that the national & international movies & series highlight toxic people in a good and attractive way.

Toxic people can hurt you consciously and unconsciously, one of the traits of this personality is that it prioritizes its interests over those of the other party, drains the other party's good energy, and withholds positive emotions. And because they hurt our life and put us under a lot of stress, toxic people have an enormously negative and detrimental effect on our life that is equal to being exposed to stimuli, this is according to studies by a German university called "Friedrich Weiler". And there are several characteristics or signs that you can use to spot a toxic personality in your life, including narcissism, draining of emotions, refusing to apologize, constantly believing that he is the right party, and criticizing the other party.

Toxic characters often have powerful personalities that are impressive to others around them, and that's why many people want to be close to them. We'll now discuss some of the signs that may make you know why you attract toxic people into your life, especially in romantic relationships:

1- If you see the good in people:
Many people are accustomed to seeing other people's positive traits. And this makes them accept all that the toxic people do, justifying that by saying that those people have good aspects.

2- If you believe that you can change people:
Many people, their job and way of life give them the opportunity, reason, and wisdom. They change people's lives, like psychiatrists, and here the issue is natural and it is also a very human thing. But some people remain convinced that they can change the life of the other party for the better and live with them afterward in love and peace with their new personalities. There are also people who take the issue as a challenge and take the risk of being close to these people because they are just convinced that they will be able to change them.

3- If you don’t look for a serious relationship:
If you don't want a committed relationship, you will have the freedom to be drawn to people who don't fit the mold of a "life partner," and the desire and space to embark on an adventure with toxic people.